I am divorced. I went to my son’s new school (he is 5) and met some of the teachers. There was one that spent an amazing amount of time with him. I was taken by her…she was charming, excellent and patient with him, and very attractive. I left the school knowing nothing could happen but I couldn’t stop thinking about her.

I want to be clear – I have met her only once. I have no delusions of what she is like and I am not falling over myself about her. However, I am, among other things, a musician and she inspired me to write a song. It’s a fan favorite, actually, about meeting someone that you have an instant attraction to, and you have to bypass that attraction. I haven’t thought about it much until I listened to it tonight. Would it be creepy to give it to her anonymously? I couldn’t bring myself to tell her who I am as she will be teaching my son in the fall. I know, I know…there is a fine line between secret admirer and stalker. This is the reason for my question. I don’t even know how to get the song to her if I did decide to give it to her. Anyway, that’s it…secret admirer or creepy stalker?