I am divorced. I went to my son’s new school (he is 5) and met some of the teachers. There was one that spent an amazing amount of time with him. I was taken by her…she was charming, excellent and patient with him, and very attractive. I left the school knowing nothing could happen but I couldn’t stop thinking about her.
I want to be clear – I have met her only once. I have no delusions of what she is like and I am not falling over myself about her. However, I am, among other things, a musician and she inspired me to write a song. It’s a fan favorite, actually, about meeting someone that you have an instant attraction to, and you have to bypass that attraction. I haven’t thought about it much until I listened to it tonight. Would it be creepy to give it to her anonymously? I couldn’t bring myself to tell her who I am as she will be teaching my son in the fall. I know, I know…there is a fine line between secret admirer and stalker. This is the reason for my question. I don’t even know how to get the song to her if I did decide to give it to her. Anyway, that’s it…secret admirer or creepy stalker?
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Without knowing her just yet past one meeting it falls super close to the stalker line. Ask her if she’s single before giving her your mixtape, because if it were me I would find it inappropriate from someone I just met and definitely from a client.