I have been dating this guy for about 6 months maybe. He’s amazing, sweet, funny, smart, but a little selfish since he was the baby of the family. And he sometimes acts childish beyond how most guys act. And we have been on a “break” for about 4 months now (10 months in total) so I can work on my social anxiety without him having to feel responsible for me. We are basically best friends, we have sex and hang out, but we aren’t “together” technically. We are exclusive as well. BUT I don’t like this arrangement very much. This has left me feeling vulnerable for too long. I don’t want to call it off and move on, BUT if some one came along that I had fun with that wanted to be more than friends with me (unlike the guy I’m “with” now) I might consider moving on.

I really do love this guy I’m “with” but don’t know how much longer I can wait for him to be ready to be back in an official relationship with me again. So I don’t know what I should do and I don’t know if thinking about moving on even though I love him, makes me a bad person.