“He still spends time with his ex”

Recently I’ve been talking to this boy. We’ve known each other since the beginning of the year when we met in our class. At the time he had a girlfriend, and we were pretty good friends. Fast forward a few months and him and his girlfriend break up after she cheated on him. Him and I started talking not long after (first just as friends, then it developed as more) and I told him I didn’t want him to feel rushed into anything and that we could take our time with a relationship.

The problem is, he still spends time with his ex. His family is really good friends with her, so they often see each other and hang out, and although he assured me nothings going to happen, it doesn’t sit well with me. They dated for almost three years, and it’s not easy to move on from someone like that. I told him them being friends didn’t bother me, because I didn’t want to come across as the jealous girl who always needs his attention, but in all honesty them being close does bother me. Am I crazy for being jealous? What should I tell him?


“Is his housemate more than ‘just a friend'”?


I have quite some predicaments with my boyfriend at the moment. He lives in a student house where he shares the facilities with 6 other housemates. One of these housemates, a girl, is pretty close to him. They like to tease each other and to mess around, which I find normal, but I also notice that sometimes it is a bit concerning how they interact. She is a nice girl, but I get jealous sometimes when they tease each other and I wonder if this is right for me to do.

I also notice that my boyfriend goes to a certain length to help her when she is having problems. He would even ask his mother/family to help her out when she needs some help. Continue reading

“Am I jealous of my boyfriend’s friends?”

I am jealous of my boyfriend’s friends. I don’t know why, but last night I was supposed to hang out and then he told me that his friend showed up and is spending the night. I don’t know if it is weird, but I went into his account and read his messages, and he told his friend to come over and they went to go do something.

I don’t know if this is over-obsessive or something, but I felt like he wanted to chill with his friend over me, and then told me he did, but his friend ended up showing up. Can someone tell me if this is weird or wrong for me to feel?


“Am I jealous or is he being shady?”

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years now. He dated a girl we’ll call her…..”L”…….about 2 years before me. Bf and L dated for only a year. I found out he was still friends with her on social media accounts, no big deal, I’m not THAT jealous.

Then one day I see her name pop up on his screen notifications, she snap chatted him. I get weirded out, ask if they’re still in touch (to my knowledge they weren’t). He says not really. So I snoop later on (bad I know) and find they’ve been snap chatting each other back and forth. Continue reading

“I’ve slept with my ex again”

My ex and I were together for 4 years, so we have a lot of history and even though he really hurt me, I still love him. He broke up with me for a new girl, and they’ve been together for almost 2 months. She left to study abroad recently, and he cheated on her with me (I know I suck) and I feel horrible.

As much as I miss him and am jealous of her, I feel bad for this girl and that he is hurting her the way he hurt me. Should I tell her? Or warn her about him? I don’t want to intrude any more than I already have. Basically, I’m jealous of her relationship with my ex, but I also see myself in this girl and feel bad she is in this situation.

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“Should I have given him my details?”

I am starting college in a new country in September and unfortunately my boyfriend of over two years will be staying in Ireland. While I was abroad looking for accommodation I bumped into another Irish student who had just finished his first year there.

He asked me to write down my details and he would give me advice on things he wish he knew before starting college. I told my boyfriend and he got extremely jealous. He is making me feel like I did something extremely wrong, yet everyone I have talked to say that he should be supportive and happy that i have made a new contact in this strange new country.

Am I wrong for giving this boy my details or is he wrong for being so jealous over an innocent act?

“My girlfriend’s sister is ruining our relationship”

I’m in a relationship with the love of my life. She’s amazing and we are perfect for each other. The problem is that I’m her first serious relationship in a while, and her twin sister is having issues with me taking her sister away from her.

At first I got it, I’d feel bad too if someone took my best friend away from me. But recently she’s gotten seriously malicious towards me and I’m not sure if I’m pissed or upset or just confused as to what to do. Continue reading

“Am I in a toxic relationship?”

My ex-boyfriend and I of three years have had a very rough patch over the course of the years. We were so very in love but he did not treat me the way that I wanted to be. I had a few talks with him about what bothered me but there was little to no change. I decided to end it with him and try to see someone else.

That was a mistake. We tried working things out again but I left him once again. The next time I left him again and it went from a spiral. He wants me to quit my job in order for things to work out between us because a co-worker and I tried dating and another one currently has a liking towards me. I see where he’s coming from but I feel like this will be a mistake in the long run. I love him very much and I’m not sure what to do about the current situation. Any advice? Do you think this relationship will become even more toxic in the long run or will this solve some problems?