My boyfriend and I are together 6 months. We’ve had sex a few times, but mostly because I ask him. We were dating about 2 weeks, when we decided to have sex, and it was amazing. The third time, he came quick, and I made a comment of asking, is he done? That offended him, and literally we didn’t have sex for 4 months.
He kept throwing it in my face, how I made him feel little, and not man enough, I’ve apologized numerous times. He said it was okay, then once, I asked him again, and he laughed, asking what don’t I understand, about him feeling not man enough , so I left it. Then, I started to notice, he started chatting with other women, then deleting messages etc.
That’s when I saw him, sending nude photos, and receiving nude photos and I confronted him, and he told me he was sorry. And I forgave him. And we moved on . We are both highly sexual, but not with each other at all. Whenever he has some beers, he’s more than willing to have sex, but the moment he’s sober, he always has an excuse. He’s tired , he’s got a headache , he’s not in the mood.
1. He doesn’t work
2. He sleeps a lot
He has a bike, I’m helping him fix it up because he wants to start buying and selling. My thing is, why can’t he be sexually into me, unless he’s just not. I’ve told him many times, how insecure I feel, that I don’t feel sexy enough for him. But he always say it’s not that. But, he never shows any interest really , no kissing , no touching, no sex . I can’t touch his penis, cause he pushes my hand away or lays on his stomach. I have no idea what to do.