Hi guys! I actually had something very tragic happen to me. I could really use some advice. The guy who I was seeing recently died from an overdose. I am very upset, but here’s the twist, he actually died next to another woman!
He decided to block and ignore me 5 days before this occurred. I guess he was planning on having a fling and then coming back. I’m not sure whether I should be more angry or sad. Right now I’m a mix of both. I have no idea how to cope and cut my losses. He broke a lot of promises. He could have actually ended things with me and tell me that he moved on, but he didn’t do that, he kept me on the back burner. How should I cope with this?
LemonVibe 
Oh my god! How awful!
I had a boyfriend who died just after we broke up and it was so hard. I think the breakup and the bereavement can stop each other from healing!
Be kind to yourself, don’t expect yourself to feel ok because this is an awful thing you’ve experienced.
Have counselling if you think it’ll help, when you’re ready.
Did the other woman die too?