“I want her back but she isn’t the girl I knew”

This is painful for me to talk about, but I’m alone and I need advice FAST. Today, I noticed that my girlfriend of 9+ months had changed her Instagram bio.. it had another guy’s name and yesterday’s date.

When I asked her about it, she claimed that he was her best friend and that was “the day they met”. Which doesn’t make any sense. After I called her out on this, she got mad and accused me of “stalking” her. She then told me that she was breaking up with me. It was so sudden and I had never been so distraught in my life.She later said that she would get back with me if I “stopped stalking her profile” and “let her go on dates”… What the heck? I don’t like having my emotions toyed with.. I want her back but this isn’t the girl who I know.

4 thoughts on ““I want her back but she isn’t the girl I knew”

  1. Anonymous says:

    Why do you want a narcissitic manipulative abuser back? (This is hypothetical btw. Run like hell and be thankful you dodged that bullet.)

  2. Anonymous says:

    I dont think you should get back with her. She make it clear to you that she doesn’t want a serious relationship. She wants to go on dates with other people! Is this something you would like to deal with all the time? I would never accept that from my boyfriend. But in the end is all up to you. If you can be comfortable with this, it is okay. But if not, do not settle for something that will make you suffer more than if you broke up. 😒

  3. Jeeshan says:

    That’s probably hurting you a lot. I understand how you’re feeling. The reason behind her sudden difference in behaviour might be because you’re too “sticky”, according to her. She might be getting annoyed by your attention and “making-all-a-big-deal” way.
    The best thing to do is: let her do everything she wants to do, and just enjoy your life with your bros. She’ll be re-attracted to you, I bet.

  4. Anonymous says:

    In my opinion she is taking your kindness for granted. You seem like a great guy, and you should be able to look at her profiles. Especially the part about “going on dates” brings up a level of concern. I don’t believ you should be with this women under her circumstances whatsoever. There are plenty of fish in the sea, and tgis one is a bad catch. Hope that helps!

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