I have been with my kid’s father for almost 5 years, but broke up after 2 years and then got back together to work things out. We broke up because he said what he was looking for wasn’t me, but then we tried to make it work again and this time around things were going so well.
Then slowly but surely, things have gone back to what it was before. He makes me feel like I’m not doing enough in the relationship and at home. I’m a stay at home mom of 3 kids and I’ve only stopped working for a year to care for our 4 year old and 11 month old twin girls. All I do is cook, clean, do laundry, run errands and tend to our children, with no help from him, I’ve asked, I’ve begged, yelled and cried to him about it and still nothing. I just feel like something is missing.
I’ve had this “friend/acquaintance” for about 6 – 6 1/2 years. We’ve never actually met, only spoken on the phone and text or messaged through Facebook, and we’ve both wanted to meet but I’ve been in a relationship almost this whole time. I’ve developed feelings for him and I find myself missing him even though we’ve never met. I feel so bad because I’m in a relationship with my kids’ father but I know he’s talking to someone else like he has in the past and it hurts because I don’t want to give up on my family but 5 years and no signs of progress.
I feel like we need to go our separate ways and maybe I should give this guy friend a chance because for years my women’s intuition has been pulling me in his direction but I’ve been fighting it. What should I do???