So, I just got out of a relationship that was two weeks shy of two years. Though I still cared for him, I’d been done with the relationship much before I finally broke it off.
A friend of mine and I hung out last night (three days after the breakup), and one thing led to another and we had sex. I thought he’d been trying to hit on me before he realized I had a boyfriend, and then once I was single, he seemed much more into me. He calls me pet names and liked it when I cuddled with him and would kiss him on the cheek. He was super-sweet and seemed super-into me as well. I don’t know if I was just reading too much into it because I didn’t understand or what?
Here’s the kicker: he said he’s not looking for a relationship, and that he’s glad we’re on the same page now. He just wants to stick with “friends with benefits” right now. The problem I’m having is I’ve never done “friends with benefits” before, and I think I have feelings for this guy.
Should I tell him I’m not interested anymore and keep it strictly platonic, or should I tell him I have feelings for him and see what happens?