My girl of four years drinks, gets piercings, tattoos, dyes her hair, and has completely changed. I am personally not attracted to these things. I love her for who she is and I am attracted to how she looks normally without all of these things cluttering her.
I haven’t given her an ultimatum, but I did tell her that I am not attracted to these things. She doesn’t thing we can be together because of this, but why trade everything we have and all the love we share over this? Am I wrong for still wanting to be with her? Is she wrong for trying to leave me for these reasons? Should I still fight for her? Should I take it as she just doesn’t want to be with me anymore and she’s making up stupid reasons?
I am 22 and this is the girl I planned on spending the rest of my life with.