“The guy I’m into has stopped responding to my messages”

So, I’m 18 and I know that’s young to be looking for a committed relationship, but I’ve just wanted a guy to notice me. The ones who notice me are only interested in what they can get and I keep seeing my peers having boyfriends stay with them for years. This has been happening for so long that I don’t believe any guy could be interested in me ever.

I recently matched with guy on tinder (yes I know this is mainly a hook-up app) but he seemed really nice and totally interested in me (he just asked such mundane questions it felt so nice and normal). We talked for a week straight on tinder then we started snapchatting each other. He was a perfect gentleman (we also have mutual connections so I think this gave us a wider range of topics to talk about), but all of a sudden he just seemed to lose interest.

We stopped talking for nearly two weeks so I decided to send to send a light-hearted, general snapchat, but he just shut down the conversation. I just assumed he might have been busy or wasn’t in the mood to talk, so a few weeks later I tried again but the same thing happened.

My friends know him and said he’s a lovely guy and I should keep pushing, but I don’t want to annoy him. I dunno whether I’m just over analysing the situation or whether he’s just not into me. Like I said, I’m not expecting anything to come of this, but some insight for future situations would be nice.

One thought on ““The guy I’m into has stopped responding to my messages”

  1. Dennis Hong says:

    If a guy is into you, it’s a pretty safe bet he’s going to message you. So … if his messaging becomes sporadic, or he just stops responding, unfortunately, that’s a pretty clear sign that he’s lost interest.

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