My ex and I were together for 4 years, so we have a lot of history and even though he really hurt me, I still love him. He broke up with me for a new girl, and they’ve been together for almost 2 months. She left to study abroad recently, and he cheated on her with me (I know I suck) and I feel horrible.
As much as I miss him and am jealous of her, I feel bad for this girl and that he is hurting her the way he hurt me. Should I tell her? Or warn her about him? I don’t want to intrude any more than I already have. Basically, I’m jealous of her relationship with my ex, but I also see myself in this girl and feel bad she is in this situation.
Time: 09/07/2017 at 10:40 am
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Here’s what you do. Write a list of every bad thing he did and tape it to your door so you see it every day. Once you are angry you won’t want him. Now, block and unfriend EVERY way he can contact you. Do not respond to anything.
Do not contact this girl. She is not your concern and your not a friend. Leave her alone. Only crazy people contact their ex’s new beau. You aren’t crazy because you saw that you wanted to and asked before you did. That’s good. First step to solving a problem is realizing there is one. Be strong. You got this mama.