I have quite some predicaments with my boyfriend at the moment. He lives in a student house where he shares the facilities with 6 other housemates. One of these housemates, a girl, is pretty close to him. They like to tease each other and to mess around, which I find normal, but I also notice that sometimes it is a bit concerning how they interact. She is a nice girl, but I get jealous sometimes when they tease each other and I wonder if this is right for me to do.
I also notice that my boyfriend goes to a certain length to help her when she is having problems. He would even ask his mother/family to help her out when she needs some help.He told me once that he liked this girl but just as a friend, and he showed me some messages with this girl where they teased each other and said that they loved each other but “as housemates.”
I am a bit concerned, and I get triggered a lot by this situation since I hang out quite often at my boyfriend’s place and I sleep there sometimes. What should I do? I tried to talk to him about it a few times, and he said that there is nothing special going on between him and her. The thing is, if I observe, I can say that he treats this girl differently than his other housemates, which triggers me to get jealous at times.
Should I be concerned?
Thank you in advance for your advice!