This is going to sound pretty dumb, but… for some reason I developed a crush on a guy I used to go to school with, but never spoke to or really noticed (this developed after school), then after learning he was living back in our home town for a few months, I drunk messaged him.
Now my drunk conversations aren’t your typical drunk talk, it’s weird and and to follow but lucky for me he was drunk too and went along with it. The next day I felt bad and apologised and we kept an awkward conversation going then let it fizzle out. UNTIL I drunk messaged him again….. after that we texted for a few weeks and it was good and fun and we got along. I ended up really liking him, however, whenever I tried to get him to hang out he would cage and get boring. After a few tries i just decided he either wasn’t into me or he was just too ‘girl shy’, so i stopped talking to him and ended up deleting his number.
I hadn’t heard from him in a while and I was just living life. I recently moved to the city and we both had discussed how we were both moving there around the same time. I didn’t think anything of it, until i got a message out of the blue from a number I didn’t recognise and it ended up being him. If I had known it was him I probably would have ignored the message, but the conversation continued and we chatted for a while and it seemed like he was into it again.
I’m not sure if I still like him or I’m just excited he’s giving me attention again…
Should I keep talking to him and see how things go this time around or should I leave it and move on?
2 thoughts on ““I drunk messaged a guy several times””
Hang out with him again and see if he can’t spark your interest again. I would say since he failed once to keep conversation flowing this one is a dud, but maybe it was just a one time thing. I would like to point out when I met my husband we couldn’t talk to each other enough and couldn’t keep our hands to ourselves. The chemistry is usually pretty obvious when it’s going to work out.
“If I had known it was him I would have ignored the message ”
Leave him alone lol