“I drunk messaged a guy several times”


This is going to sound pretty dumb, but… for some reason I developed a crush on a guy I used to go to school with, but never spoke to or really noticed (this developed after school), then after learning he was living back in our home town for a few months, I drunk messaged him.

Now my drunk conversations aren’t your typical drunk talk, it’s weird and and to follow but lucky for me he was drunk too and went along with it. The next day I felt bad and apologised and we kept an awkward conversation going then let it fizzle out. UNTIL I drunk messaged him again….. after that we texted for a few weeks and it was good and fun and we got along. I ended up really liking him, however, whenever I tried to get him to hang out he would cage and get boring. After a few tries i just decided he either wasn’t into me or he was just too ‘girl shy’, so i stopped talking to him and ended up deleting his number.

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“We lost contact then she messaged me on my birthday”

Hi guys, first time I have used anything like this, but I need advice really bad. I am currently halfway through being 18 and breezing through University life.

6 months ago, on my 18th birthday, I got a message from a girl I used to be really close friends with, and it was odd as I had not seen or had contact with her for 6 years. Obviously, it was my 18th birthday and I was a little drunk and as a result, I messed up the conversation and it was awkward and cringeworthy to read back the next morning. Continue reading

“Did I make a mistake ending things because of politics?”

I was talking to this great guy for about three months. He left for school in another state right after we started talking, so we relied on texting, Snapchat, and Skyping.

Things were going great, besides the fact that I thought he was way to good for me, until the election results came up, and I brought up politics. That’s when we realized we don’t have the same political views, and I would get really mad when we talked about it.

So I ended things. Did I make a mistake ending things because of politics?

“I really like this guy, but don’t want to come on too strong”

I met a guy a┬ámonth ago. I initiated everything: I talked to him first, I asked him to go out several times. We recently hooked up and I’m not sure how I feel about everything. Personally, I do not know where I stand in terms of wanting a relationship, commitment or anything like that right now in my life. I do not know what I feel about him yet. I just know that I feel a little something when he doesn’t respond in a timely fashion.

I understand the importance of space, so I force myself to not spam him with messages, especially when he is not responding first. He responds really slowly, or not as fast as I would like him too. I am aware that not everyone is on social media as much as I am, but I just feel like things aren’t being reciprocated. The fact that I overthink so much definitely plays a role in this equation.

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