I’m very confused just now. My ex broke up with me a month ago, and has spoken to me every day since, he says he still loves me, but not looking for a relationship etc and he tells me he broke up with me because we were arguing a lot, which is true.
I obviously feel really low about it and it is hard to continue talking to someone you care about when they seem to be happier without you. I’ve often thought of just not talking anymore and trying to move on, by speaking to other men and maybe dating etc but I know that would be used against me if he decided we should make it work again. It’s my confidence that’s really taken a knock, and I would like to feel like I’m at least wanted, not even in the sense of a relationship, but that I’m not alone in the world and I can be cared about. But when I’ve even mentioned seeing other men, he’s made a point that I don’t love him, and I’m just looking for anyone to settle down with ,which isn’t true at all.
I did love him, but what am I meant to do, wait about, feeling like I’m nothing at all until he moves on, then it would be ok for me to do so, or am I potentially giving up on someone that could still be the one for me?