I really like this guy who is into my music and physics class. He is kinda quiet, not shy at all and just super sweet. Loads of people seem to have a crush on him. I’ve never really been in a relationship before, so I’ve got no idea what I’m doing. I was quite flirtatious for the first couple weeks I’d met him, up until he dropped the girlfriend bombshell, that’s when I backed off. I’ve tried so hard to change the way I feel, with little success, and here I am over a year later, still just as crazy.I think that despite everything, he still might like me back?!? But everything is constantly changing. When we first met, he and I were starting to become quite good friends. He complimented me quite a bit, sat next to me in music and we talked loads too; sometimes just about school and at others on a more personal level; like who he disliked in his friendship group, a bit about his family, etc. The big thing for me was that I caught him looking my way sometimes and seeming flustered if I caught him.

Then exam season hit and we stopped talking for a while. We hardly talk anymore, and I just about thought I’d lost him, but then I heard from a friend of mine that he argues a lot with his girlfriend, and the two of them just aren’t what they seem. Plus I’ve been talking to another guy (with no feelings whatsoever) and on a few occasions that my crush had been around too, I’ve caught him staring from afar, looking quite jealous before averting his gaze.

I don’t know how to get him back, even as just a friend because he always made me so happy. And I don’t know how to interpret his actions either… do you think he likes me at all???