This is a really uncomfortable situation I am in, and I have been debating constantly about what I should do for the past couple of days. My younger brother is 4 years younger than me, and we used to be pretty close growing up. Now that I am in college and have moved away we aren’t as close, but we do still talk often.
Well, I came home for the weekend and was bored, so I logged into his computer to play some video games. He wasn’t home and gave me his password beforehand. Right when I logged in I saw that he had a folder named L on his desktop. I know it’s fucked up to invade my brother’s privacy, but my curiosity got to the best of me and I opened it. It was full of porn pictures and I thought no big deal, and was going to exit out. Then I noticed a few of the pictures that looked out of place. They didn’t look like normal, professional porn pictures, but pictures that he took off his phone. I opened them and was completely horrified…
They were pictures of our mom naked. To make things even weirder and creepier, it looked like he took the pictures from underneath my mom’s bathroom door, as she was changing or going to take a shower. I immediately exited out when I realized what the fuck I was looking at. I mean what the FUCK was my brother doing with naked pics of our mom!? I still don’t really know what to think or do about it. I just turned off the computer and haven’t talked or done anything about it since.
I really don’t know if I should just shut up about it and never bring it up, or if I should tell him to delete them asap and yell at him for it. I haven’t told anyone and don’t know who I would. I would never tell my mom because it would horrify her, but I do have older brothers that I’ve been debating to tell. If anyone has any advice on what I should do in this fucked up situation please tell me.
I also really just needed to vent about it and tell someone because it’s eating up my conscious. I am debating whether I should just confront him personally. Whether to scold him or just be a good brother and tell him how wrong this is. Or should I just tell my mom, or get her to find out without her ever knowing I know, so it’s just a personal thing between my mom and little brother. I don’t know and could really use some advice.
4 thoughts on ““My brother’s been looking at our mom, naked””
Tell your mother and don’t delete them until she can see so it’s not turned around on you. YOUR parents should handle this and not you.
Sounds like this might cause some serious issues and mess with the family dynamic if you tell your mom. I think it may be best to talk to him – don’t exactly scold him but explain how inappropriate it is. Force him to delete the photos (with you there) and warn him if anything like this happens again you’ll go to your brothers or mother. Good luck!
Go to your mother. She needs to know this. Also, if he’ll do this then he’ll escalate to violating other women’s privacy to get his voyarism hit. Your parents can get him professional psychological help, but you can’t. All that will happen is he’ll hide it better if you talk to him and deny it if you bring it to your parent’s attention.
Also, if you can, research your state’s child pornography laws. He’s old enough to be curious about sex, he should know the repercussions. Some states charge kids who take nude selfies of themselves underage and send them with distribution of child porn. Warn him before he gets listed on a sex offender list, because this is serious. What he did was illegal.
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