“My girfriends’ stories about her ex are upsetting me”

I keep finding out from my girlfriend (been dating for 3 months) about boys that she has kissed or given blowjobs to in the past before we dated and it really messes with my head, especially because of the biggest issue.

About 2 months before we started dating (neither of us even liked each other at the time) she was “friends with benefits” with my best friend, and would constantly describe what kind of actions she would do for him, and the worst of all, he gave me very specific details about the time that he took her virginity (they only had sex 3 times, the first time being her very first time ever).

My girlfriend truly does regret it and wishes it didn’t happen, but my mind cannot get rid of those specific details that I was told, and even a video that my best friend showed me (before her and I dated) of him getting a blow job from her. It hurts every time it crosses my mind and it’s started to hurt our relationship and it’s starting to make me very sad. I would like help to be able to clear my mind and come at ease with the whole situation.

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One thought on ““My girfriends’ stories about her ex are upsetting me”

  1. Anonymous says:

    You need a professional therapist to help you though this.

    She needs a new boyfriend who won’t judge her on her past. OMG she had a sexual relationship before you! It’s like she had a life before you started slut shaming her. That’s sarcasm btw. She’s done nothing wrong and you are punishing her for past relationships.

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