On my boyfriend’s Facebook page he has nothing but a bunch of women with nice bodies. Some have clothes on, some half naked. I feel a little intimidated sometimes because I don’t have a model shaped body and I wonder if he ever looks at me differently after he looks at them.
I think it’s disrespectful because now he’s in a relationship and even though he had the page before me, it’s more of a respect thing to me. I don’t have a bunch of random naked men on my page. I only have people that I went to school with, men and women.
I don’t know if this should be a issue but this bothers me and I told him about it. He deactivated his page, but not for long. So how should I handle this issue or should it even be a issue or am I over thinking about this?
I think you should seek professional counseling about your insecurities, because nothing he says or does will help you feel better about yourself and that’s what’s really bothering you. You may want to let your boyfriend go and take a break while you do this. All men look at women and its not fair to ask him to shut down social media for you. You don’t trust him anyway. Your feelings are valid. Might as well fix your issues then work on dating someone you do trust.