“I’m falling for an exotic dancer”

31/M/Registered Nurse. I am just out of a 10 year marriage and have had a lot of trouble dating. I lost a lot of weight, improved the way I dressed, without any luck. I ended up befriending a couple exotic dancers that are much younger than I am. One of whom I am very interested in pursuing a relationship with. She’s in a relationship with another guy but is constantly spending time with me. Her partner and her have a very bad relationship and he’s very distant.

Almost every day she’s asking for comfort from me because he doesn’t support her. I give it freely but have made my feelings known but stated I’d prefer their relationship run it’s course before I pursue anything. I ended up inviting them along for a vacation in a city where they work occasionally. This led to her partner distancing himself further and yet another night of talking/texting/spending time together.

My questions are as follows 1) Should I even be pursuing a relationship with an exotic dancer 10 years my junior? 2) Should I press her to leave her current partner since she’s so unhappy?

One thought on ““I’m falling for an exotic dancer”

  1. Anonymous says:

    No and no. Don’t be her back up plan. Everything in this situation has Drama written all over it. If she gets out on her own then by all means, but don’t wait around and don’t give her man a reason to blame you when he doesn’t have the where with all to end it himself and is hoping she’ll be the bad guy and break up with him.

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