I’m almost 15 and I recently came back from two weeks at summer camp. At camp I met a girl named Alice and we became fast friends. I wanted to be around her all the time, I always wanted to be touching her… One night I couldn’t sleep because I kept imagining us on a date.
That night I came to the conclusion that I wasn’t totally straight and that I had a crush on Alice. I wanted to hug her and kiss her… we were so close and did everything together, so much so that all the other girls at camp actually thought we were dating. I’ve been mildly questioning my sexuality for a few months bit I’ve never had actual feelings or desire for another girl before I met Alice. She is so funny and nice and talented, she dances, draws and sings. For our unit talent show she sang and I almost cried because she was so nervous and shaky but she sounded so good. Since coming back from camp we’ve been texting a lot and she sent me a really ugly selfie that I thought was so cute! Even her very unflattering pictures make me just like her more. She’s a lesbian but I don’t think she likes me…
I really like her and I don’t know what to do. I’m also very confused on my sexuality because I’m not totally straight but Alice is the only girl I’ve ever liked so I think I’m bisexual. Please help. -R
I think the best thing for you to do is to try things out with Alice (if she is into you) and you might be able to come to terms with your own unique sexuality or even just grasp what it might be. But remember, it is never about labels… it’s only about love! I Wish you the best on your journey 😘