My boyfriend and I met on Tinder about 4 and a half months ago. About 2 months after we started our relationship, I cheated on him. I felt terrible about it and I’ve never had so much regret. He found out about a week later and was very upset but forgave me because he had cheated on his previous girlfriend.

According to him, he knew what I was going through in a sense. Since then, I haven’t even talked to another guy. But lately, maybe over the past month or so, I notice him texting a girl from his work. I wouldn’t be too concerned about this but it’s almost like he texts her nonstop, definitely more than he texts me. I don’t want to bring it up to him because I don’t have any real cause for alarm and I don’t want to sound like a hypocrite, but it really bothers me. It wouldn’t bother me as much if they were talking about work related things but it’s more personal like where he is, what he’s doing, and her guy problems. I’m not sure if I should talk to him about it or just try to ignore it. Please help.