My flatmate has started dating a guy. I have been with my boyfriend for two years, and our boyfriends have only met a few times. We had a party at the weekend when my flatmates ‘guy’ called me fit (hot) and was a bit touchy with me.
My boyfriend says he feels a bit disrespected by him, but my flatmate just brushed it off and said she didn’t see the big deal, and that we were overreacting. I told her because she was in another room at the time! Could anyone give us their opinion please?
LemonVibe 
It’s scary that she’d defend a man she just started dating vs. the person helping her pay bills. I think it’s time you either found a new room mate or became someone else’s roommate, because the fact that she brushed you off so easily is scary.
As for the guy tell him you aren’t interested and BE LOUD. Too many women are afraid to hurt people’s feelings and this guy was out of line. Don’t be alone with him again.