Tag: party

“Did I cause their break-up?”

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I don’t know if it was directly my fault, but I might have just influenced a couple to break up.

So, a little background first. My guy friend, N, and I have been pretty close for about 6 months now. We only met last August, so our friendship got deep pretty fast. He’d been seeing this girl for about 3 months in private, she’s part of our friend group and neither of them wanted to stir up drama. He told me about the relationship a while back and I supported it, even though I kind of like him. Which is why this next part gets a little weird, and lines get blurred.

This past weekend, there was a party at my house for my friends and me, about 24 of us, to drink and have a laugh and fall asleep in a tent (not important to this story but still cool) and N was there. He and I stuck around each other the whole night, I was stressing out and he was just trying to keep me from having a panic attack. At about 2:30 everyone is either in the bed or has gone home (some didn’t want to sleep over) and it’s just me and N in the house. Continue reading →

“Shall I brush off his advances?”

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My flatmate has started dating a guy. I have been with my boyfriend for two years, and our boyfriends have only met a few times. We had a party at the weekend when my flatmates ‘guy’ called me fit (hot) and was a bit touchy with me.

My boyfriend says he feels a bit disrespected by him, but my flatmate just brushed it off and said she didn’t see the big deal, and that we were overreacting. I told her because she was in another room at the time! Could anyone give us their opinion please?

” I have a little (gay) crush on my friend’s sister”

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My Birthday is in two months and I plan to have a small party with some friends. One of the guests is a friend of mine. Problem is, I have a little (gay) crush on her sister, but never really talked to her except for at another Birthday party some time ago.

I’m not looking for a relationship and she’s probably straight anyway, but I would really like to be friends with her. Should I casually ask my friend to ask her sister if she wants to come too? Like “Hey, you can ask you sister if she wants to come too” or something like that. What should I do?

“I don’t know if she’s interested in me”

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A couple of nights ago we had a staff party at work. Fantastic night, it was the best staff party I think we have had in a long time. Lots of alcohol. Everyone got super f***** up. And my friend (lets call him L) had a bit too much to drink and he really likes this girl (lets call her R,) but I like her too. And I followed her from room to room trying to find a place to sleep.

We ended up going to L’s Room and  having a 3-way spoon. And I was the little spoon. R was the middle spoon and L was the big spoon. R now hugs him from behind at work all the time and doesn’t to me. Is this a sign that I don’t have a chance, or she’s just not interested? Any girls ever been in this situation?