A couple of nights ago we had a staff party at work. Fantastic night, it was the best staff party I think we have had in a long time. Lots of alcohol. Everyone got super f***** up. And my friend (lets call him L) had a bit too much to drink and he really likes this girl (lets call her R,) but I like her too. And I followed her from room to room trying to find a place to sleep.
We ended up going to L’s Room and having a 3-way spoon. And I was the little spoon. R was the middle spoon and L was the big spoon. R now hugs him from behind at work all the time and doesn’t to me. Is this a sign that I don’t have a chance, or she’s just not interested? Any girls ever been in this situation?
LemonVibe 
It sounds like she may be interested in the other person but the only way to know for sure is to ask. If you like them just ask them out for drinks or something and see what happens.
Does R still interact with you like she used to before the party? As a girl, I tend to be more touchy-feely with guy friends I’m not into, and more cautious with guys I am into. I guess it really depends on her personality.
I agree with the idea of asking them both out for drinks. Ignore the romantic implications and just spend time with each other as a group of friends. If they do anything that makes you feel like a third-wheel, then maybe she really is into him.
Don’t read too much into the back-hugs, though.