My boyfriend and I have been together for one-and-a-half years. He was my first time and ever since that first time, we usually have sex a lot. It seems like that’s all he ever wants. We’ve tried everything — anal, bj, missionary, different sex positions. We’ve run out of options and now I just feel like a porn star.
His favorite is anal, and it’s not comfortable for me, but if I don’t ever want it, he just gets upset about it. He’ll get upset if I don’t know anything new to try, but how can I? I was a virgin before him, he thinks we don’t have enough sex, but usually we’ll have it 4-5 times a week. I used to be so into it, but now he just wants to get in and get out. I have to use lube just to get started. Now because he won’t have foreplay with me anymore, he thinks its a chore to turn me on. He just wants to do it.
One day I asked him to maybe make out with me, or just run his hands all over my body to help me, and he got offended. We work together, we live together, and at work when he texts me, he just wants to text about sex, and if I’m not saying anything interesting, he will literally tell me he’s bored now or I killed the fun. I don’t know what to do anymore … I know this sounds like a bunch of rambling but I don’t know how to put it all together in a better way. I just feel used.