“He offered me money to do sexy things with him”

I’ve arranged to meet with someone online and do sexy things with him. But I’m still a virgin and kinda want my first time to be special. This man is 49, whereas I’m nearly 18. He has offered me £150 to do just low-level sexy things with him for 2-3 hours. Now I could really do with that money with Christmas coming up and all that jazz, and 150 is a good amount to spend on friends and family. I’m just not sure if i really want to do this, but the money aspect is very alluring. Any advice?

4 thoughts on ““He offered me money to do sexy things with him”

  1. Gaby says:

    If you are uncomfortable with anything, then you shouldn’t force yourself into doing anything. Regardless of the money.
    I was in the same spot as you except I was looking for money for school.
    However, if you do bring yourself to do it, make it clear that you aren’t comfortable having sex.
    Just understand that you feeling comfortable is the most important thing.

  2. Anonymous says:

    Many companies are hiring Christmas help right now. I would look in to being seasonal help instead. You dare putting yourself at risk of rape, murder, sexually transmitted diseases, and possible bad reputation that follows you when you try to get a job.

  3. Anonymous says:

    Nope, just don’t do it. You’re still a minor. You wouldn’t want anything to do with a 49 year old if it weren’t for the money. And if you’re friends need to be spoiled for Christmas, they’re not your friends. This is a decision you will always regret and it can lead down a slippery slope of what seems like easy money for easy work. But then it’s hard to escape and it’s not a life that you want to lead. Not to mention all of the risks mentioned above. Look for other work and cut off ties with this stranger that wants the wrong things from you.

  4. Anonymous says:

    I’m not great at advice but this might help…

    Just don’t !!. Him offering you money is just a away for him to keep what could seen as activity with a minor quiet. Your better than being used for a few quid. Your first time should be when you are ready with someone you actually know and trust.

    Xmas isn’t about money either, it bring people together and showing you care. I have recently had a xmas with my friends where didn’t have much money so w made each other a gift ( mine was table mat made from a old tree an sanded).

    Remember the golden rule for the world of internet dating, that people lie.

    Hope it helps even just a bit.

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