I just ended my relationship, now I think I might be in love again, and I don’t know what to do. I just moved to a different country, and even though I tried to make it work long distance with my girlfriend, we didn’t make it. It was a pretty tough thing, but that’s life.
I think I’m just missing someone in my life, because a few days ago I met this girl, and think I’m falling in love with her. The thing is, she’s not interested in me, and I don’t know what to do because I don’t know how to date anymore after being in a relationship for so long. And worse yet, she seems really interested in my friend (who knows I like her and is not doing anything, but still I feel really bad watching her flirt with him).
I don’t really know what I’m looking for posting this, It’s just a really tough spot for me to be in and I don’t know what to do anymore. I know the best thing would be to forget her, but it’s just a really intense feeling for me right now. I can’t get her out of my head.
Any insight would be appreciated.
2 thoughts on ““I’m falling in love with a girl I just met””
I’ve been in a similar situation and there isn’t really much to be done. In my case the girl actually did date my friend for several months. All I can really recommend is try to be yourself and hope she notices you. Don’t try to impress her or be someone else (what I did) because it just never works. In my case we ended up becoming close friends and I just moved on. It’s not a great situation to be in at the time, but all you can do is hope she takes a shining to you. I hope things work out with you.
As a girl I can tell you that girls want what other girls have. When I reject a guy I feel a little petty and want him just because this pretty girl has him. I wonder what’s so good about him? And he can’t be all that bad then. So what I’m aying is find another girl who is prettier or as pretty as she is who knows maybe you’ll end up falling for the other girl instead.