I dated this guy for 9 months, and he suddenly broke up with me. I was heartbroken and fell back into a deep state of depression that I hadn’t felt since we started dating. I soon “got over him” but haven’t found anyone else, and cant bring myself to put myself out there to find anyone else.
A few weeks ago, he got drunk and told me that ever since we broke up, whenever he goes out he cant stop thinking about me, but when has sober he thinks more logically. He said he regrets the way that he treated me, like not responding to texts or ditching me on the weekends to play his computer games. He says in a perfect world where no one would judge us, we would be dating again because he knows that I miss him and have merely “gotten over him.”
He said he needs time to think about it, though, because he needs to focus on school and his games, but he misses me. I told him I couldn’t wait forever because it hurts and I am just sitting around waiting for him. My best friend is telling me that I need to do what makes me happy, and he is what makes me happy, but I don’t know if it is worth it to sit around waiting for longer, or if I should confront him and tell him what I think and just stay friends. I need help because this is ripping me apart. I want him back so badly.
2 thoughts on ““I want him back so badly””
You know I played video games (world of warcraft 10 years) and found that in the long run if the man felt that video games ranked over me then he wasn’t worth it. I know you can do better than this “boy.” I am not going to call him a man, because he’s not shown you what a adult would do in a adult relationship.
He only misses you when he’s out or sober.
Video games are more important that you.
He ditched you on the weekends instead of including you.
He ignored your texts.
You can do better than him.
i know how you feel , been ‘dating’ this guy for a year on and off . Honestly fell in love to fast..didn’t see all that was wrong and that i deserved better. You should honestly call him and tell him how you feel right now not for him but for YOU! Think about YOUR feelings ..he didn’t think about yours when he said and did those things. Do it and try to move on. There are guys that can do so much better for you hun! Believe me ! He’s not worth you