Me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year-and-a-half, and have been living together for eight months. When we moved in, we fought a lot.
Even though we have resolved those issues, i have thoughts of being with different people, fantasizing what it might be like. I read that its normal to be attracted to other people while committed, but I almost have a feeling of dissatisfaction, or boredom.
I feel like the beginning of our relationship was intense, exciting romance, and I don’t feel that anymore. He’s a really sweet, awesome guy who treats me very well. He irritates me at times, but that will happen with anyone.
My question is, how do I know if it’s my status or my life that needs sprucing?