“I’m married, but can’t stop fantasizing about someone else”

I am married and have never been unfaithful. I love my wife.

I have a friend I have known for years who I cannot get out of my thoughts. I have been drawn to her like a magnet since┬áthe day we met. I have never crossed the line with her, but I feel guilt because I have dreamed and fantasized about her. I value our friendship and I don’t understand why she has this effect on me.

Does this make me a bad husband?

“I’m bored with my relationship, but isn’t that normal?”

Me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year-and-a-half, and have been living together for eight months. When we moved in, we fought a lot.

Even though we have resolved those issues, i have thoughts of being with different people, fantasizing what it might be like. I read that its normal to be attracted to other people while committed, but I almost have a feeling of dissatisfaction, or boredom.

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