I am of the belief that people in a serious, long-term, committed relationship shouldn’t keep secrets from each other. I’m not talking about stupid gossip, or sharing everything you ever did before you met each other, that’s just dumb. But freaking out every time someone puts away the other’s laundry because that means they’re going through your drawers. Or needing to hang over your SO’s shoulder while they’re using your phone, even if you say you have nothing to hide.
I’m just curious where people draw the privacy boundary. And if your SO has strict boundaries, does that make you nervous? Does it make you want to break them down?
I guess the root of this question is how much do normal people trust their SO? Is it normal to have a little apprehension?