I have a serious problem with commitment. I get so overwhelmingly into a guy and then it all crashes because I realize I would rather have the other one. I started dating this one guy in high school, and we decided to break up before college. He was always nice to me, and we lost touch. Then I started liking this other guy in college and we were a thing for a full semester. But when I took him home to meet my friends, my ex was there!
Next thing I know I broke up with the college boy and am back with the boy from high school. I NEVER doubted things with the college boy before that moment and it was like I blinked and it was all over. Being back with my ex was awesome for a good month but now I have some SERIOUS regrets because the boy from college sees me way more and understands me on a deeper level. I don’t know what the hell I’m supposed to do, I already have broken both of their hearts before and I don’t want to cause any more pain. I feel like such a piece of shit and I’m so worried I would just do it again if I went back to the college boy. Any advice would be great!!
4 thoughts on ““I keep going back and forth between two guys””
Move on from both
^ Neither boy will complete you. You are still learning about yourself and need time alone not dating anyone. Until you can make yourself happy, you don’t need to be in a relationship hopping from one greener looking pasture to another hoping one will be “the one.” There are over 4 billion people on this planet so there is no such thing as “the one.”
Honestly, I am going through the same thing but with like 4 guys. I have learned that the reason we do this is because of comfort, try moving on or doing friends with benefits. Just make sure if you do that to make it clear with the other person that no strings are attached!!
You should stay single for a while.