“I keep going back and forth between two guys”


I have a serious problem with commitment. I get so overwhelmingly into a guy and then it all crashes because I realize I would rather have the other one. I started dating this one guy in high school, and we decided to break up before college. He was always nice to me, and we lost touch. Then I started liking this other guy in college and we were a thing for a full semester. But when I took him home to meet my friends, my ex was there!

Next thing I know I broke up with the college boy and am back with the boy from high school. I NEVER doubted things with the college boy before that moment and it was like I blinked and it was all over. Being back with my ex was awesome for a good month but now I have some SERIOUS regrets because the boy from college sees me way more and understands me on a deeper level. I don’t know what the hell I’m supposed to do, I already have broken both of their hearts before and I don’t want to cause any more pain. I feel like such a piece of shit and I’m so worried I would just do it again if I went back to the college boy. Any advice would be great!!

2 thoughts on ““I keep going back and forth between two guys”

  1. Anonymous says:

    ^ Neither boy will complete you. You are still learning about yourself and need time alone not dating anyone. Until you can make yourself happy, you don’t need to be in a relationship hopping from one greener looking pasture to another hoping one will be “the one.” There are over 4 billion people on this planet so there is no such thing as “the one.”

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