My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. Everything was going fine then we started arguing everyday. When he’s around and we argue he gets in my face and yells louder. When I try to leave wherever we are at, so I can have a break away from him, he prevents me from leaving.
He calls me names everyday and even called me a “sly little bitch” because I was in the living room with my 6 year old sister and didn’t want to get in a fight over the phone. I love him but I also want to leave. We are supposed to get married in 5 months but I’m not sure if I really want to go through with it, I don’t want things to get worse. I’m not sure what to do. Yes I have tried talking to him but he doesn’t seem to care. When I tried to talk to him about the argument today he just said he was tired and was going to bed.
4 thoughts on ““I don’t want to go through with this marriage””
This isnt a healthy relationship – if you want to chat DM me on twitter @bethhearne
Don’t get married – you sound fairly young and it will ruin your life if you go through with it. You haven’t even been with him that long. Get out while you still can! You say you want to leave, so leave and ask for your family and friends’ support during this time.
I agree completely with the previous comments, this relationship really doesn’t sound healthy, and I hope you know that you’re worth a lot more than all of this. Remember you have all of the power, even if it doesn’t feel like it right now. Don’t be afraid to leave, I promise you that you won’t look back. If you want to talk, my Twitter is @milliecarryeah, you don’t have to feel alone with all of this
Don’t get married. This man is mentally abusive. Get out now.