Hey everyone, I’m kind of nervous writing this . It’s actually my first time doing anything like this. I really needed somewhere to vent, to let out some frustration.
My husband and I have been together 14 years. Some wonderful and some horrible. I was only 17 when we first met, and nothing meant anything to me, but him. Now we have a beautiful family and we both work full time , opposite shifts. A few years ago I found a few pictures of a girl we knew, naked on his phone, as well as a bunch of messages to another girl sexting her. Now he has a password on his phone, and is constantly changing it. Could it be because he has something to hide from me, or is he just playing mind games with me?
I find myself to be lonely a lot of times, he is around, but not all there. He’s tired, but won’t admit it and if I or anyone else point it out to him, he gets upset and angry. He likes to play video games and watch our son do the same, and I would rather do something active. I feel like we have nothing in common anymore and that he will look elsewhere if I don’t do what he wants all the time.
Please give any advice or just a listening ear would help.