I’ve been seeing a guy since July. And everything is going really well with him. He had cancer and is now in remission. He told me he had a best friend who is a girl, at first I was (oh I’ve never came across this unless there is history) so I asked him and he said he went out with her when they were 17 briefly, but just became friends!
So I was ok about that, since it was years ago. Anyway, he told me she had found out she has a tumor in her cervix, so bad and big that it had hair and teeth! He said she had so much trouble trying to get a date from doctors for an operation etc. So weeks went on I heard nothing of it until last weekend, he said she had gone in for her operation and that she never told him? I found it strange she didn’t call him since he went through the same. He said she had keyhole surgery. And that she went to a well known hospital, but this hospital is a hospital for just giving birth and birth related surgeries.
Everyone I say it to, are saying they would not do a surgery like that in there, she would have to go to a main hospital, I thought it was odd that the surgery would be done by keyhole? Because it being a big tumor and having teeth and all, would that not have to be a proper incision to cut it out? And then he said she walked out of the surgery the next day and signed herself out!? And is now going to the gym….. I’m really confused about this story he is giving me. I’m meant to be going away with him for a week and I’m having doubts.
Either she is lying or he is. I don’t know how to approach this, he also brought her to a sit down gig tonight and it’s only been a week since her operation?!! Is she attracted to him and using these lies to get closer to him? Or is it him?? I’m so confused … Should I say it to him that this sounds weird or should I leave it ?