“Should I give him a second chance?”

A few months ago, I had a date with this guy. Things were okay, but not fantastic… I never heard from him afterwards, which was kind of off-putting for me. I know he’s not obligated to follow-up with me if he doesn’t want to, but I still think it’s rude. Because of that, I unfriended him on Facebook. I honestly didn’t think I would ever hear from him again, so I didn’t feel the need to keep him on social media. He made it pretty clear that he wasn’t interested.

Recently, I’ve heard from 2 of our mutual friends that he started to reconsider things. He was going to apologize to me and ask me out again, but when he saw that I unfriended him on Facebook, he felt like it was too late and he missed his chance. Apparently, he feels really guilty and like he made a mistake.

I’ve always thought that I would give him a second chance if he just acknowledged that it was wrong to leave me hanging like that. I’m always willing to give someone a second chance, but I haven’t reached out to him at all since that one time we went out. Should I just let it go? After all, it was him who rejected me. It’s not like any of this is my fault. But still, I wonder if I should let him know that he still has a shot, but should I? And if I should, how do I do that?

2 thoughts on ““Should I give him a second chance?”

  1. Anonymous says:

    OH HELL NO. This man didn’t even have the balls to tell you, hey, we’re not going to work out for a second date. He ghosted you. Women tend to be overly nice to jerks and then wonder what happened. This man doesn’t deserve a second chance just for apologizing. I wouldn’t give him the time of day, much less a second chance.

    You deserve better.

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