A few months ago, I had a date with this guy. Things were okay, but not fantastic… I never heard from him afterwards, which was kind of off-putting for me. I know he’s not obligated to follow-up with me if he doesn’t want to, but I still think it’s rude. Because of that, I unfriended him on Facebook. I honestly didn’t think I would ever hear from him again, so I didn’t feel the need to keep him on social media. He made it pretty clear that he wasn’t interested.
Recently, I’ve heard from 2 of our mutual friends that he started to reconsider things. He was going to apologize to me and ask me out again, but when he saw that I unfriended him on Facebook, he felt like it was too late and he missed his chance. Apparently, he feels really guilty and like he made a mistake.
I’ve always thought that I would give him a second chance if he just acknowledged that it was wrong to leave me hanging like that. I’m always willing to give someone a second chance, but I haven’t reached out to him at all since that one time we went out. Should I just let it go? After all, it was him who rejected me. It’s not like any of this is my fault. But still, I wonder if I should let him know that he still has a shot, but should I? And if I should, how do I do that?