“Should I let my fiance have sex with another woman?

Should I let him have another woman, just for sex? I have been with my fiancé on and off for over 10 years, and it’s been a solid relationship for the past 2 years. But, for the past 6 months, I just don’t care about sex anymore. I don’t desire it from anyone at all.

I’m still attracted to my fiancé, and I love him. But, I find no benefit from it. Some info to note, I have depression, hypothyroidism, am 4 months pregnant, and I’ve never had an orgasm during sex. I’ve accepted the fact that I never will. Although, even satisfying masturbation seldom sparks my interest.

I don’t know how long this will last. I feel terrible because I have to force myself to have sex with him, and he wants sex daily. Should I just let him have a woman on the side for safe sex only, or just hope this passes?

One thought on ““Should I let my fiance have sex with another woman?

  1. Anonymous says:

    I think you might want to check with your gyno, and family doctor and start seeing a therapist for your depression to find out why this is happening FIRST!

    If you are OK with polyamory then it’s OK, but if you are not then no he can’t have a girlfriend. It will just make things worse especially with a baby on the way! That’s a whole new set of issues.

    Baby’s add to everything with sleep deprevision and a infinite amount of issues. Your hormones will still be cray cray after the baby. Whoever said pregnancy is wonderful needs a bat upside the head.

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