I’ve been married for almost 3 years now. In the 5 years we have been together, I’ve NEVER once had eyes for anyone else, I’ve just been madly in love and loyal to him.
Until I met his co-worker 3 weeks ago. My husband invited him and his girlfriend over to play pool and have some drinks, and we were all having such a good time getting to know each other. A couple drinks turned into several, then we all found ourselves in a very, very odd predicament…..We were in our bedroom, having a foursome sex party. Now, before you think it was a typical foursome, it really wasn’t. I only had sex with my husband, but we all performed oral on each other. We have never engaged in activity like that before, it was a very new thing in our relationship.
I woke up the next morning feeling very strange, aside from my hangover. I had no regrets, in fact, I woke up and stared at the sleeping bodies in my bed and felt giddy on the inside, a new excitement. I’ve only seen my husband’s co-worker 3 more times since that night, about a month ago, and each time I see him my whole body gets hot, jittery and tingly. I crave him, and not just sexually…I feel way too happy to see him, smell him, hear his voice. But I feel it’s not one sided. The way he looks at me is intense, I have to look away frequently because isn’t it obvious to anyone else? But I look around and no one bats an eye. Is it in my head?
Since I’ve never felt this way about anyone before, and since it was just out of nowhere I started feeling this way, I’ve been pondering the weirdest thoughts: Did he like sell his soul to the devil to make people love him so easily? Love spell maybe? Why am I so seriously obsessed with this man??
I feel like a very bad wife for having these intense feelings, but I can’t shake it. What’s wrong with me?
LemonVibe 
Sounds like a crush! Definitely a very tricky situation, but remember: you’re married and he’s in a relationship, so it’s better just to try to keep it all to yourself. It’s completely natural to look at other people, and that does not make you a bad wife. But distract yourself whenever he tries to drift in to your mind. Avoid situations in which you have to be with him. Go out on dates with your husband. I know it’s super hard to forget, and he may have that brand-new crush kind of appeal, but you must fight this voodoo love spell!
Nothing is wrong with you! You’re a woman! A sexually awake one! He turns you on, and the thought of how well that night went! You and your husband should have more open communication as it seems you were all open enough to let that happen! It’s not cheating if you do it together! Tell your husband you’re really interested in recreating that night the 4 of you had! You could even role play alone and pretend that he’s the co- worker…….lots of different options to have happened here and NOT ruin your marriage!
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