Hi, I’m a freshman in college and I’m having roommate issues. I have 3 roommates and we live in an apartment-style dorm room, so we each have our own room but we share a living room and bathroom. I love 2 of my roommates but the other one is causing issues.
About a week ago, let’s just say she called me a really rude name. I don’t care if people call me this name in a joking manner, I don’t care if people call me this name and I deserve it, but she wasn’t joking and I didn’t deserve it, so it made me upset.
After that, she said called me the name again. She has also said that I needed be quiet when I checked on my other roommate who screamed in the shower, when she screamed the other day for no reason, so loudly that our RA had to check on us to make sure we were okay, twice.
I hate confronting people and causing conflict, so I don’t know what to do. Also, I can’t move rooms and I’m stuck with her until May. Any advice?