I don’t want anything to become serious. I am in high school (freshman), and I recently got asked out by a guy who is completely compatible with me, and my parents seem to like him. I met him a couple months before he asked me out. We started talking around 2 weeks before he asked the big question, and me being me, I said yes.
There has been some pressure from his friends, as he’s been very public about his crush on me, and now everyone knows that we are together. It’s been a week into the relationship, and already I feel that something is off between us. I know I shouldn’t have accepted, especially since I’m so young and naïve.
I am also working on my grades, and I realize now that I don’t want this to interfere with it. It would’ve been easier to break it up with him if it wasn’t for how obsessed he is with me. He buys me coffee every lunch and gives me his sweaters. He is also very sweet and extremely kind to me, and it makes it hard to tell him anything.
Again, it’s only been a week, and I’m in questioning right now. Should I give him a chance, or should I break up with him? It would break him, but I’m not sure what to do.