“My boyfriend recorded secret videos of all his exes”

I recently was going through my boyfriend’s external hard drive (we’ve been together for 5 years on and off). I first found a bunch of videos and pictures of all of his exes he had kept. I then found a few he recorded of them that they obviously didn’t know were being filmed.

It made me stick to my stomach. I dug a little more and found a video where he had done the same thing to me. I made copies of everything and deleted them off his external drive. He now knows I know everything and is trying to apologize and make it up to me.

When he did it, it was at the beginning of our relationship, and he swears he would never do it again. I don’t know what to do. I don’t know if all the tears and trying to kiss my ass are because he truly gets how upset and disgusted I am (it’s to the point that things trigger me and I can’t stop shaking and crying), or if he is really just trying to make things right, because he knows I can turn him in to the police.

Please, I need some advice. I can’t talk to anyone about this because no matter what, it’s embarrassing, and if I do decide to stay, everyone will know and judge both of us. What do I do? He cries all the time and hasn’t been eating. I just don’t know his motivation.

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One thought on ““My boyfriend recorded secret videos of all his exes”

  1. Anonymous says:

    Turn him into the police and find a safe new home. What he did was horrible and illegal. Someone who loves you won’t abuse you like that. He only loves himself and is conserned about his own welfare. If he cared for you or ANY woman for that matter he would not have abused you and them like this. You deserve better. Get out now and turn him in before he preys on another woman. That’s what he is: a sexual preditor.

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