My boyfriend goes out to his friend’s house almost every weekend. That’s okay to me. Previously (ages ago) I asked him to take a photo at their place, and he did, very reluctantly.
Yesterday he went out again, and I asked him to take a photo for me, and he completely refused and ignored me straight afterwards.
He came back today, and I asked him why he refused. After a while he snapped and said, “Then do you want me to just message you 24/7? Just take random pictures while I’m chilling with my friends just for you?”
I’ve told him all the time that if he doesn’t message often, its completely fine, because he is with his friends, completely understandable. But all I asked for was a photo. Is it that bad? Is it a guy’s thing? With my female friends, taking a photo, messaging on my phone seem perfectly fine.