My best friend is going to have her massive birthday house party on my birthday, and I don’t know what I should do. I am obviously not okay with it, but I don’t know if I’m just being overly dramatic?
We had recently talked about our dreams of having a massive party together. Then she asked me out of the blue in front of some of our other friends if she coulc have her party on my birthday, so I was obviously kind of shocked and just said, “yeah that’s fine,” because I didn’t want to sound like a spoiled brat in front of our friends.
But I’m not okay with it. We go to different schools, so we have different friends, and whenever I have previously been to a party with people from her school, I’ve never liked it that much because they all get super drunk and never do anything fun. So I don’t really want to do that on my birthday. I have often said how I wish I shared a birthday with someone, because I don’t like all the attention. However, I don’t want someone to take my birthday. I just wanted to share. Please help! What should I do? Am i overdoing it and being a brat?!?