This guy I used to hook up with is now my neighbor.
About a year ago, I met this guy from class. He was cute, charming, and I was definitely attracted to him. I just got out of a long-term relationship, so I felt ready to get out there.
We hung out casually, and finally went out. On that night, we hooked up. I felt good because it was the first time I got back out there after my breakup. We hung out a few times after that, but stopped talking after a while.
Close to a year later, I see that he’s my neighbor. He instantly texts me and after talking for a bit, he asks to come over. I knew exactly what he wanted, -and I wanted the same thing. We hooked up again. It was strange this time around – meaning little chemistry. I think it was mainly because we didn’t talk and just went straight to it.
It’s been two months since we last hooked up, but I try to avoid him to not have any awkward run-ins, but when I do see him, neither of us say a word. I don’t like the awkwardness. Do I just deal with it? Does he feel weird too? Should I just leave it alone?