A few months ago, this girl I like invited me to her party. I go, talk with her, talk with her friends, have a pretty nice time, but didn’t really make a move on her there. Afterwards, I send her a simple “thanks for the invite” text and ask her to do something. She gives me no response. Bums me out a great deal, so I go about everything else. A few months later, on my birthday, I post a before and after picture of myself since New Year’s (I dropped 20 pounds). She likes the pic, gives me a happy birthday post, and actually suggests doing what I was asking her to do.
I won’t be able to see her for about another month, but just wondering, should I treat this as a date or just a friendly outing? Advice appreciated.
LemonVibe 
Hello! I’d suggest you treat it as a friendly outing! In addition, I’d like to advice you to not be too invested in this girl, as she seems to have interest in you only after you had dropped that 20 pounds? I get that prizing physical appearance is part of human nature, but ask yourself if you would like that characteristic to be so “strong” in your future girlfriend/partner. So yeah, go out with her but don’t get too invested, at least not yet! Then from your interactions, decide if she’s still worth your time to chase, if not it’s time to move on yeah?
Official old guy comment…. You texted her that you rented to go do something? I get the “thanks for the invite” text but the asking her to do something should be a phone call.
That said, go and have a great time. Don’t worry about his to classify it. Enjoy. After you’ve hung out you can decide if you want to pursue her. If you do call her and ask her out.
Official old guy comment…. You texted her that you wanted to go do something? I get the “thanks for the invite” text but the asking her to do something should be a phone call.
That said, go and have a great time. Don’t worry about his to classify it. Enjoy. After you’ve hung out you can decide if you want to pursue her. If you do call her and ask her out.