My boyfriend and I have been dating for some time now. When we began dating, I weighed close to 210 pounds, then dropped to 140, and am now back up to 168.
Recently, he let me know that he doesn’t want to get married until I am in better shape. Obviously, this crushed me, but, he said marriage is forever, and he does not want to have the urge to cheat on me with women who are in better shape.
In the mean time, he assures me he is committed to me, and is very much in love.
Ultimately, I can understand where he is coming from, but, I am left wondering does this mean it isn’t an unconditional love? What happens when I am pregnant, or right after I have a baby?
I feel like I’m not good enough. He assures me that I am, he just wants me to be my best self before he marries me. Does any of this make sense?