My guy friend has been in love with his boyfriend since they were in secondary school, but since they got together, he’s been on a downward spiral. He used to be a smart little introvert and now he’s out taking class A drugs on the regs. The final straw was finding out he broke my friend’s arm during a drunk fight this week, my friend loves him too much to leave and I’ve always played friendly because I’d rather my friend be safe at my house than out fuck-knows-where but it’s too much now.
I need to try and break them up, permanently. I have a lot of personal dirt on the boyfriend from when he’s been coming over regularly and he’s told me stuff. None of it incriminating though, just shit childhood stuff. I’m willing to use it, but I don’t have an angle, and I can’t threaten him away because even though he is intimidated by me, he’d just tell my friend, and then avoid me.
I can’t tell my friends mum either because she will just “ground him” and he’ll run right back into the arms of his boyfriend… Help?