I have been with the same guy for eight years, and we have been engaged for four years. We just recently bought a house together.
On my way back home from a business trip, he texted me and said he was unhappy and wanted to end everything. He doesn’t want to try to work on things. He says he loves me, but, can’t do it anymore. We decided to sell the house, and one week later, he has started to date a girl he used to sext all the time, apparently completely unrelated (according to him).
I love him, and want to be with him, but, there is nothing I can do if he doesn’t want to work on things. He never gave me a concrete reason besides he is just unhappy. If he really loved me, I’d like to think he never would have done it like that, but, I am having issues dealing with it.
He says he wants to be friends, and that we could possibly get back together later on, but, is someone like that worth it? Advice, please?