I’ve been married for a year now, and for the last six months, my husband keeps giving me the excuse of being too busy and stressed out to spend any time with me.
He will make plans to go to concerts and dinner with his daughter and friends, but 100% of the time, he says he cannot commit to doing anything with me.
He owns a restaurant and comes home very late — usually past midnight. He spends a lot of time on his phone (on Facebook) to unwind. I go to bed alone, every-single-night not knowing when he is coming home.
Recently, I went to visit family for four days, and when I returned, he said that he truly enjoyed not having me here, and enjoyed doing whatever he wanted to do without me.
I’m very angry with him, and feel rejected by him. I have no idea what to make of this behavior. He says it is all work stress.